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Stress and Anxiety

Stress is a condition of our times

This art of resting the mind and the power of dismissing from it all care and worry is probably one of the secrets of energy in our great men. Captain J A Hadfield

The simplist definition of stress is mental and/or physical tension, usually both. Stress is also commonly the result of negative thoughts and emotions. It is a response to internal and external forces, of recent or past events, leading to a variety of observable symptoms.

 
Stress - friend or foe?
 

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The most common stress related complaints presented to GPs are stress and anxiety which is reported to affect 40% of the UK working population. In fact, we ALL suffer from stress at some time in our lives.

Hypnotherapy is a major non-drug treatment which can greatly reduce stress.

Up to 5 million people in the UK feel "very" or "extremely" stressed by their work.

Bosses can now be fined for worker stress such that every hospital, school and business faces criminal prosecution unless it can prove it is tackling stress in the workplace.

Many people visit their doctor with alarming symptoms, believing that they have serious underlying causes. They are often quite surprised and disbelieving when they're told they are suffering from anxiety and stress.

Anxiety is a state of fear, an over response of the mind - an ineffectual attempt to resolve personal difficulties. Physical reactions and fatigue are often present.

What are Emotions for?

We need emotions and they have evolved for a reason to: protect us, creates interpersonal bonds, stimulate motivation and develop ideas and actions through self-expression. The negative emotions put the brake on our thoughts and actions, although more positively they can strengthen our resolve to achieve, for example, fear of poverty inverted as financial ambition. We need to understand and embrace our emotions, not hide from them. Emotions are closely linked to body language and last longer the more we try to suppress them.

Depression, anxiety, panic attacks all respond well to the increased self-awareness achieved by hypnotherapy.

With emotional problems it is the CAUSE which should be treated, not the symptoms. A particular symptom, such as a phobia, may well have a VERY different causes in different people - unlike a bacterial infection, for example, where the cause is known and clear-cut (the bacteria) and the same for everyone.

With emotional causes there is no clear-cut link between the symptoms and the cause. Clearly, it's first important to eliminate any physical origin (by consulting your doctor) before investigating the emotional source. Hypnotherapy is the best way to resolve the emotional elements. It 'reprogrammes' the unconscious mind in a way which no other medical or psychological treatments do.

Stress in your life

Both depression and anxiety tend to be unconscious habits – with a negative focus. The unconscious mind automatically seeks out 'evidence' (reinforcing reasons, or justifications) for feelings anxious, or depressed – such that the effects can become self-perpetuating. We see what we want to see, hear what we want to hear, feel what we want to feel pattern.

Whilst consciously seeking to resolve issues, this habitual and circular well practised thinking can be the stronger influence. Some problems may be little more than imaginary fears of what could happen (with an active negative imagination). The unconscious is acting diligently, worrying unnecessarily about the future. This often stems from a desire for certainty - when, of course, life itself is often uncertain. Such need for certainty arises unconsciously from inner insecurities. Some people may also believe that worrying itself can actually influence future events – which it can't, taking action produces results.

Negative mental chatter can lead to mental 'rumination' – trying to mentally resolve actual and/or imagined problems by going over these time and time again...to see if we've missed something. Often it is better to acknowledge unpleasant feelings and avoid excessive self-protection as this is too self-centred and obsessive – ‘digging your own hole deeper’.

Anxiety can often initiates depression; and the reverse is, of course, possible. Commonly, anxiety is active, depression is inactive. It is considered by many in the mental health profession that depression will be the second bigger reason for disability ten years from now.

Symptoms of Anxiety & Stress

When someone is anxious they can lose weight due to reduced appetite, or put weight on through comfort and binge eating. Indigestion and nausea are common. Other common symptoms include urinary problems, such as passing water more frequently, and pain in the bladder.

Some people experience irregular heart beats, palpitations, maybe constrictions in their chest. In the absence of an organic cause, these are all stress and anxiety related symptoms. Panic attacks can also be common.

Blushing and self-consciousness can be a problem in company, whether at work or socially where feelings of insecurity arise. Shyness can restrict interaction with others. Feelings of inferiority can also inhibit the individual and undermine confidence. Phobias can develop, especially social phobia.

Headaches are common. Abdominal pain can also occur – sometimes diagnosed as Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). Constipation or diarrhoea is not uncommon. General pain in the neck and shoulders are often the result of bottled-up stress and anxiety. Sometimes buzzing and ringing in the ears can occur, giddiness may be a problem. Vision can be affected. Insomnia is a very common reaction to anxiety. Obviously, any possible organic reasons for any of these symptoms should be investigated with your doctor.

These are just a few of the many psychosomatic effects that anxiety and stress can have on health and well-being. Hypnotherapy and techniques of stress release which address the link between mind and body can work wonders. Restoring harmony and strengthening defences to cope with the stresses that are part of our competitive society are clearly desirable.

Importantly, hypnotherapy addresses the underlying subconscious causes unlike any other treatments.

Stress is usually caused by excesses and change from the norm – pressures to perform, uncertainty, recession, increased job load, maintaining quality, excessive hours, frustration, targets to be met, marital problems, bereavement, redundancy, to mention but a few.

However, it is not only unpleasant things in life which cause stress; it is also enjoyable things as well – like promotion, new responsibilities, holidays, retirement, or the arrival of a new baby. These too can cause an equal amount of stress.

In fact changes of any sort, good or bad, pumps up on the stress level considerably.

 
 

Our bodies respond to stress: The heart rate increases, we breathe more shallowly, adrenalin flows, muscles tense, and so on.

These are normal responses which prepare us for a rapid response by the brain and muscles.

But regular exposures to stressful situations long-term can cause health problems.

Yet some people strive on a degree of stress and anxiety, experiencing it as excitement.

 

How we react…

Unfortunately, many people turn to cigarettes, alcohol or tranquillisers as a way of coping with their stress. Short-term these may help, but longer-term they undermine health and well-being and just make matters worse. We are happiest with a balance between stimulation and periods of rest.

Where does stress come from?

Most people would list at least half a dozen major sources of stress in their lives - from financial worries to sleepless nights with the baby. There are two basic sources:


External

These are events “outside of ourselves” that create stress within us. Could be a new job, work pressures, or financial concerns… – some of these are within our control, others outside. It’s how we react to these that determines how stressed we feel.

Internal
To a certain extent, how we deal with the external stresses is determined by our programmed attitudes and beliefs.

We’ve had different parents, childhoods, physical and emotional experiences. It’s not surprising we react to the same situation differently – some people cope well, others don't.

Some physical symptoms of stress:

• headaches
• feeling faint
• chest pains
• breathlessness
• sweating
• nervous twitch
• cramp or muscle spasms
• high blood pressure
• feeling dizzy or sick
• tiredness
• restlessness
• poor sleeping
• constipation or diarrhoea
• overeating
• indigestion or heartburn
• lack of appetite
• sexual difficulties

How do you feel when stressed?

• irritable
• loss of interest in others & things
• aggressive
• feeling ‘low’
• feel unloved & neglected
• feel unattractive
• lonely
• imagine & fear diseases
• fear failure
• lose your sense of humour
• expect the worse
• dread the future
• pessimistic

Do we behave differently when stressed, anxious or depessed?

• can’t make decisions
• procrastinate
• tearful
• difficulty concentrating
• pull hair
• bite nails
• ‘bury’ problems
• hide feelings

Generalised Anxiety Disorder

Worrying tries to address the uncertainties of life by replaying many times the particular theme within the unconscious (automatic) thoughts. It tend to be a bad habit and as such needs to be unlearned and reprogrammed. The worrying is an over-learned response to life stress and needs attention, reflection and a willingness to practice a new focus. Hypnotherapy can be very helpful in this regard.

Associated with worry are:
• Muscular tension
• Restlessness
• Easily fatigued
• Irritability
• Sleep disturbances
• Difficult in concentrating

What do people worry about?

People worry about all sorts of things, including:

• Responsibility for others
• Relationships
• Finance
• Making decisions
• Changing jobs
• Getting promotion
• Their ability to cope
• Future uncertainties
• Sexual issues
• Being a good parent
• Threats to family & friends
• Health which can also have social overtones.

Real or imaginary.

But in practical terms problems, and therefore worries, can be grouped as:

• Could be solved
• Can’t be solved
• Imagined and probably will never statistically happen
• Worry about worry itself

Anxiety and worrying is the imagination working overtime!

It is often best to:

• Break problems down into smaller elements
• See the problem as a challenge, not a threat
• Don’t get too far ahead of yourself (often worriers seek perfection)
• Don’t worry about making a less than ideal solution
• Build confidence in your own judgement, taking small steps.
• Accept that some things (and people) can’t or won't change
• Seek longer term solutions, where appropriate.

Too much worry demotivates action, a little can stimulate - therefore a balance is needed.

I met a fit and mentally active old lady of 92 recently. When asked what her secret for a long life was, she replied: I have never worried – what’s the point!

Many physical health problems are due to the body being in a ‘permanent anxiety state of alert’ arising from stress.

“Taking no risks is perhaps the greatest risk of all”

“People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are” Rollo May

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.” Ambrose Redmoon

Mindfulness

As a concept, mindfulness is of Buddhist origin and is beginning to be applied more and more to stressful western cultures.

“We are granted (by God) the serenity to accept that there are some things we cannot change; we seek the wisdom to know what we can and cannot change and take the action to develop our life in those areas where change is possible”.

Mindfulness is where awareness and attention is given to one’s present actions. It is non-judgemental, open and receptive i.e. being much more aware of feelings and subsequent actions, particularly those created by unconscious motivations.

This means people are able to attend to their own mind and be much more in tune with unconscious undertones. It is intended to bring conscious thoughts into closer harmony with a revised unconscious script.

Buddhists believe mindfulness leads to wisdom, being positive in thoughts and actions.

Can hypnotherapy help with stress?


Hypnotherapy creates a more balanced perspective, such that stress can be viewed in a positive and realistic way - creating the opportunity for beneficial change. In other words, accepting some stress as a means of personal development.

Self-esteem is an important part of achieving contentment and happiness. Of course, we accept that 'happiness' is not a constant state and it is unrealistic to be in this state all the time. However, hypnotherapy can create an environment in which it's possible to have a clearer view of what personally matters in achieving happiness.

Depression and anxiety conditions are often linked to stress.

 
 

Real happiness is how you feel inside.

How well you know yourself and your level of self-esteem.

We use a range of techniques including hypnoanalysis, to discover your strengths and allow you to cope with stress more effectively.

 

Anxiety & depression

Depression and anxiety can affect up to one in six of the population at one time. It shows a sensitive nature.

Both Hypnoanalysis and Clinical Hypnotherapy can be successfully used to treat anxiety and stress-related conditions, including panic attacks, phobias, and many sexual problems. Sessions will also include practical techniques to still the mind which itself is relaxing and empowering.

Please visit our depression page for more information.

 
 
Those who follow a course of hypnoanalysis report that they feel more confident, relaxed, happier and contented.

 

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Hypnotherapy can often help with:

 
Anxiety attacks
Blushing
Bruxism (grinding teeth)
Bulimia/Anorexia
Chronic fatigue
Compulsions
Depression
Fear of being sick
Fear of social situations
Feeling ‘down’
Guilt
Impotence
Insomnia
Irritable Bowl Syndrome (IBS)
Lack of confidence
Low Libido
Migraines
Nerve rash
Nightmares
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Panic attacks
Phobias
Poor self-image
Premature Ejaculation
Self-harm, such as cutting or burning skin/arms/legs
Sexual problems
Shy bladder (Paruresis)
Shyness
Slimming and weight loss
Social anxiety
Stammering
Stress problems
Stuttering
Tension and worry
‘Toilet related’ phobias
Vaginisimus
 

Work-related stress is a major cause of occupational ill-health and estimated to cost employers over £5 billion a year. The HSE give management standards and practical guidelines for employers and employees.
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