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Beating Depression


Depression undermines your ability. Saps your motivation. Drains your energy. It's pessimistic, inward looking. It stifles the real you. Limits your enjoyment of life. Stops you being your true self. And stops you being 'the person you want to be'...


Do you ever feel sad, but can't always understand why?


Lack energy and the desire to take action?

Do everyday events easily get you down?


Has the sparkle gone out of your life?


Clinical Hypnotherapist and Hypno-analyst Alan Gray knows a lot about depression with clients and from personal experience.


Alan's depression arose from 'bottled-up' emotions which started very early in life. He was born when his mother was emotionally fragile, as she lost her own mother three days after Alan was born. It is well known that a baby can 'absorb' anxieties from the mother in late pregnancy and of course after birth.


When Alan was 12 years old he suddenly lost a very dear person who was like a second father to him. Being so young at the time his feelings weren't sufficiently expressed or discussed and eventually these became a source of unexplained sadness from his late teens. There were other occasions too - all under the impressionable age of 15 years - which were also repressed emotionally but which came out years later on physical maturity.


In fact, Alan's periods of depression didn't become noticeable until he was 19. Hence the connection between cause and event was not immediately obvious. Fortunately, the effects of these early upsets have now long passed. Thanks to hypnotherapy! His only regret: not going earlier.


Hypnotherapy can be very effective in resolving the cause of sadness and a general loss of interest in life.


Depression is a major health problem, effecting at least one in six people at some time in their life. It affects both individuals and employers, through personal unhappiness and reduced productivity.


The total estimated cost to the UK economy of depression through lost productivity is a staggering £105 billion a year! This sum would pay for almost all of the NHS budget.


The issue is probably under reported, with women twice as likely as men to seek medical help for the ‘blues’.


Depression, anxiety and stress are part of a continuum which can range in severity from mild to severe. They are not always easy for hard pressed GPs to diagnose with any accuracy in a 15 minute appointment. When thought to be a problem the standard approach is medication, which does not address or resolve the underlying cause.


Typically symptoms of depression include: slowness, inactive, self-pity, difficulty with concentration, interpersonal conflict, self-critical, withdrawn and self-protective (often with older people), irritability and anger (more commonly in younger people), worry, feeling on edge (the fight or flight response), muscular tension, avoiding social events, avoiding challenging tasks, avoiding facing family issues ('brushing problems under the carpet'), indecision and procrastination.


Over time, both alcohol and drug use can also lead to depression - a cycle of self-destructive habits being established. Both alcohol and drugs are often used to numb feelings. Gambling can also be a diversionary tactic, distracting the mind from immediate worries but potentially creating more problems later.


As mentioned, depression itself is not black and white but a continuum from mild to severe. To the casual observer, or even the busy General Practitioner, the severity of a depression is not easy to gauge and an individual may be good at hiding their real feelings. They may be reluctant to talk about it (particularly to health professionals) due to fear of stigmatisation.


Unfortunately, there is still something of a stigma attached to depressive illness in some societies - a sense that it is a personal weakness. Thankfully, many famous people have now admitted that they can get depressed – despite their trappings of fame and fortune!


Sometimes the disorder is short-lived and lifts as quickly as it came. At the other extreme, depressions can last many years.


There are varying levels to which sad feelings can affect daily life. Depression is often linked to anxiety and persistent worrying thoughts. Stress can be a contributory factor, either external (e.g. job, relationships, financial) or internal (how one reacts to stressful events).


Depression may have a clearly defined cause e.g. relationship breakdown or bereavement. Otherwise, the cause may be less obvious and perhaps linked to an earlier, often forgotten emotional experience.


A recent event in life can serve as a ‘trigger’ which acts as a subconscious reminder of a forgotten and emotionally charged memory. It is the energy in the stored emotion which creates the anxiety, which then can produce depressive feelings.


Severe physical illness can also make an individual depressed and the advice of your doctor should be sought in diagnosing specific conditions.


Depression is a mental frame of mind which differes from more serious psychotic illnesses. In depression the individual turns inwards, becoming critically introspective. Typically there is some loss of confidence and lowered self-belief. Psychotic disorders are beyond the scope of hypnotherapy.


There are also a number of mental disorders which can lead to depression. These include phobias, anorexia nervosa, alcoholism and drug dependency.


Many depressions arise from ‘free floating’ anxiety which often have deep rooted sources. Once established, such a condition can become habitual or conditioned thinking, automatically influencing feelings and behaviour.




• There is frequently a general sense of sadness which may peak in the early morning.

• Lower energy & lack of motivation

• Slower thoughts & physical movements

• Loss of interest in work &/or leisure pursuits

• Poor concentration & irrational thoughts

• Guilty feelings

• Tearfulness

• Procrastination &/or indecisiveness

• Early wakening & poor sleep patterns

• Pessimism

• Thoughts of death

• Poor personal hygiene

• Weight loss or weight gain

• Decreased sexual drive

• A withdrawal from social life

• Being self-absorbed


Personality can play a part in creating specific symptoms, particularly how the depressed person feels about themselves and their level of self-esteem, self-belief and confidence.


Bipolar Disorder


Bipolar Disorder (previously called Manic Depression) is a condition in which the person alternates between levels of elation (raised mood) and periods of depression. The extent of the 'highs and lows' and their duration can vary on a spectrum and may, or not, have an effect on aspects of an individual's life.


In it's extreme form the elated mood can severely distort a person's perceptions, such that they may say and do things which are completely out of character. They may for example have a highly inflated view of their abilities, have much greater self-confidence and enhanced energy levels. This can lead to reckless overspending or inappropriate decisions which the individual can later bitterly regret. At the time the high moods appear as 'riding on a wave' and can be very seductive. In practice, however, they are not desirable for the reasons mentioned. It is the nature of full Bipolar disorder that the 'highs' will be followed by 'lows', or in other words: optimism follows pessimism: higher energy levels follow fatigue. The elation phases in full bipolar can sometimes be regarded as psychotic in nature and may need specialist psychiatric treatment with medication.


Bipolar Two Disorder is a sub-division of Bipolar Disorder in which the individual does not experience the substantial (almost psychotic) highs of full bipolar, although periodic depression is still a major effect. For some people they can experience changes in mood over many years and bipolar 2 can also cause chronic difficulties. It might be said that due to the difference in energy swings an individual is not sure who is their true self: the optimist or the pessimist. This can cause many social and employment challenges.


The 'high' moods of Bipolar 2 are referred to as hypomania, which unlike mania is not associated with psychosis. The duration can vary from four days (the minimum qualification) to many months. Also to qualify diagnostically the individual must have had three or more hypomania episodes in their life-time. The depression phase typically follows a similar pattern and duration. However, Bipolar 2 is not easy to diagnose by clinicians, despite being more chronic and often long-live compared to full Bipolar Disorder. Because it can be a life-long condition from early adulthood it can potentially cause significant social and economic damage to the individual. Depression is the most unpleasant aspect of the condition.


Any form of bipolar often begins to show in the late teenage years. It is thought to be due to a combination of genetic influences (a predisposition) and earlier life traumatic emotional (or stressful) events which trigger the predisposition genes. Personality plays a part too, just as there are people who are full of nervous energy and appear to be on a permanent high.


The main features of the Hypomania phase can include:


• Enhanced self-confidence

• Reduced need for sleep

• More talkative than usual

• Feeling in a good mood

• Happy with oneself

• Quick thinking & optimistic

• Over-estimate abilities

• Ambition beyond realistic possibilities

• Flights of fancy

• Unrestrained and unnecessary spending

• Financial impropriety in investments

• Sometimes sexual indiscretions


Hypomania can go unnoticed to the untrained eye.


Full-blown mania in Bipolar extends beyond the above. It will be more severe, disruptive and even dangerous to an individual's lifestyle.


The main features of Depressive episodes can include:


• Reduced interest in daily activities

• Possible weight gain or loss

• Insomnia or broken sleep

• Lower personal care

• Reduced physical and mental energy

• Lower self-esteem and confidence

• Slower thinking

• Pessimistic outlook

• Reduced motivation

• Focus on past regrets

• Self-critical


Obviously, both mania/hypomania and depression in Bipolar 1 or 2 are relative and not absolute states.


Hypnotherapy can assist in addressing Bipolar 2 by levelling out the high and low phases.


Alan Gray has a particular interest in Bipolar 2 Disorder and depression generally.




Both depression and anxiety tend to be undesirable unconscious habits with a negative focus. The unconscious mind automatically seeks evidence to reinforce reasons for feelings anxiety or depressed - a self-perpetuating response which maintains and strengthens these 'dis-eases'.


The usual medical intervention is a course of antidepressant medication or other mood-leveling drugs, as prescribed by a medical practitioner, usually your GP. Some patients can experience unpleasant side-effects from certain antidepressants, and there is a move towards other forms of treatment, hypnotherapy included.


Depression, anxiety, panic attacks all respond well to methods of self-awareness - leading to better communications between the conscious and unconscious minds. Hypnotherapy facilitates this process, restoring harmony and balance.


It is important to gain an understanding of the emotional content of depression, such as the commonly held belief 'I am not good enough'. Clearly there may be life events, past and present, which first initiated and later triggered depressive thoughts.


These could be relationship issues, family loss, bereavement, divorce, unemployment, financial difficulties, health problems and so on. The importance of building a stronger self-image and a belief in yourself is central to leaving behind depressive thoughts and negative self-talk.


Confidence building is an important element. In every hypnotherapy session there will be a one-to-one talking part, which is then followed by hypnosis.


Equally practical day-to-day activities to counter the depression installs an active strategy. This begins to allow the old depressive and negative habits to gradual lose their strength.


Alan Gray is sensitive to the needs of depressed clients and has considerable insight into the nature of depression. He understand it can be a debilitating conditions. However he is optimistic that it can be overcome and the sun will shine again.




This is a natural hypnotherapy process to address the root cause of a depression. Once the cause is identified the factors creating the depression are dissapated.


The client has a greater sense of insight into the condition. Once this self-awareness is enhanced, the depression will be replaced by a more optimistic outlook.


Hypnoanalysis normally takes 5 – 8 weekly sessions over a similar number of weeks.


Suggestion hypnosis


Powerful positive suggestions can also be made under hypnosis which help reduce stress and build self-belief and confidence. These develop calmness and relaxation, as old negative habits are replaced by positive expectations.

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